May 2011
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How Teedra Moses Laid The Blueprint For Hoodrat... →
What does it feel like to be me? Hi! My name is Panama Jackson, you may remember me from such musical expositions as Tupac Back: You Can’t Be A Thug Angel If You Won’t Die N*gga and
May 7th
My Romantic Bucket List →
“No Morg, I can’t believe that we’re both still alive either. And yes, we’re both tempting fate by making a movie called Bucket List. F*ck b*tches, get money.” While it seems that…
May 5th
Single Woman Syndrome →
“I should have been nicer. Maybe I could have kept a man. All those lace thongs and all I used them for was this curtain. What a waste. I’m dusty.” [***DISCLAIMER #1: Read the…
May 4th
Landmark Moments In The Black Community – The... →
We black, we know it. We dancing. It’s our birthday. Booty butt cheeks. Booty butt cheeks. This has been a good week for Black people. Really, it’s been a good week for those of…
May 3rd
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Osama Gone. →
I’m dead. I had intended to write a whole other post and then I happened to look at Twitter. And all of a sudden I see ninjas talking about Osama Bin Laden being dead. …
May 2nd
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April 2011
14 posts
Words Of Advice For A New College Grad →
Between WorldStar spam, the dozens of daily requests to promote premieres of movies starring people you thought were dead, and the 125,000 times per day that people ask us how to create…
Apr 29th
Back In The Habit: Thangs I Just Can’t Shake →
If you squint and turn us sideways, we look like the flag for El Salvador. We rock! Let me borrow the microphone today. Mmkay? Mmkay. Today, class, I’d like to talk about habits….
Apr 29th
10 Ways That Black Women Stay Winning →
It is the season of champions. What do UConn men’s basketball, LeBron James and Charlie Sheen have in common? They are all winning. Do you know who else is winning? White women. More…
Apr 28th
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Why It’s True That Men Need To Love “Harder” Than... →
One of my homegirls (“Angie”) divorced her husband a little over a year ago. After going through the perfunctory post-breakup reflection and mourning period, she started dating again….
Apr 26th
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Apr 26th
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Oddly Significant Investment Items →
Is there a heart in the house tonight? Stand up…stand up. Ella ella ella no more. Have you ever had sex with a pharaoh one of those moments where you wished you would have paid…
Apr 23rd
Fighting The Power With Radio Ruckus →
Jesse? Jesse, dat you at the frigidaire??? (If you have iTunes, click this link to the Jesse Lee Peterson Radio Show and our episode is labeled “Tragedy of Black Babies” LOL. We…
Apr 22nd
Fighting The Power With Radio Ruckus →
Jesse? Jesse, dat you at the frigidaire??? (Hopefully we can get audio loaded for you all. But for those with an iTunes account, the free podcast is available on iTunes. Search…
Apr 21st
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Apr 20th
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Show Ya Drawz: Icebreakers VSB Style →
Can we please have a moment of silence for this small chronic break? *momentary silence* It’s been the best of weeks, it’s been the worst of weeks. Plymouth Rock has come in and landed…
Apr 8th
Never Scared, Until I Met You →
There’s a fairly popular misconception and myth that most men are commitment phobes. We’ve somewhat dispelled it here by clearly outlining, stenciling, and color-coordinating that it isn’t…
Apr 7th
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Comforter →
Once upon at time not long ago, I stumbled upon a most interesting conversation. This was a conversation being held by three white guys who worked with me. They were talking about welfare…
Apr 6th
Shooting The Messenger: Why Even Ugly Men Can Give... →
A segment of a comment on yesterday’s recap of the recent Three Deez VSB event: Now, they’re clearly great guys, but the amount of dating, relationship advice, opinions of women that…
Apr 5th
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The Morning(s) After #threedeez: An Event Recap of... →
Oh, what a night. Here’s a little background for all those suckas that don’t know: One day, I was talking on the G-chat with Cheekie. She mentioned that a gaggle of ladies would be…
Apr 4th
March 2011
46 posts
The World’s Smallest Violin: Attractive and... →
I feel your pain, man I have a friend “Jake” who’s basically a life-sized black Ken doll. He’s handsome, smart, ambitious, charming, energetic, and positive; seriously, he’s the…
Mar 31st
Why (Some) Women Are Reluctant To Accept That... →
I don’t remember when exactly I first heard about “The Game” — Neil Strauss’ best-selling look into the pick-up artist (PUA) community — but I do remember being 1) confused by the…
Mar 30th
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ListenIf you missed our debut on satellite radio,...
Mar 28th
Three Possible Reasons Why Online Dating’s Just... →
While a tad disappointing, I can’t say that I was surprised after reading “Love Isn’t Color-Blind: White Online Daters Spurn Blacks” — the Time Magazine piece showing that…
Mar 28th
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Mar 28th
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Get Gone: Instantly Breakupable Offenses →
Man, I don’t know either. I believe that if you decide to commit to somebody then you commit: lock, stock, and barrel. You believe in their dreams and hope they live long enough…
Mar 25th
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“Two popular bloggers on their own, Panama Jackson, 31, and Damon Young, 32,...”
– —Bloggy Blog World: Black Bloggers Push “Publish” Button For Books Deals
Mar 24th
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Flawed And All: An Examination of A Female Mantra →
I’m the one talking but I’m telling you to be quiet. Love me, flaws and all. My favorite Beyonce song in her academically and emotionally jarring catalog is “Flaws And All”….
Mar 24th
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The VSB Files — Episode 8: The One Where We Answer... →
Sometimes you just got to get back to the essence of making it do what it do. So join The Champ, Liz, and Panama Jackson as they discuss to you all of the wonderful things that have been going on…
Mar 18th
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The New Rules of Do-It-Yourself Book Publishing →
We talked to AtlantaPost.com about the road to self-publishing our book, Your Degrees Won’t Keep You Warm At Night: The Very Smart Brothas Guide to Dating, Mating, and Fighting Crime. Check it out here. 
Mar 18th
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All Sold Out: A couple thoughts about the “Fab... →
Kyrie Irving put me in an extremely unusual and unsettling place earlier this fall. You see, Irving is the best 18 year old point guard I’ve ever seen¹. And, since I’m a mercenary when…
Mar 17th
The “I’m Lucky I’m Black” Passes: Things Black... →
There’s an episode of “Louie” — the hilariously awkward and awkwardly hilarious FX series starring comedian Louie C.K. — where a older male police officer asks Louie for a kiss. The cop…
Mar 16th
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Why “Staying Attractive” Is The Most Underrated... →
The survey of 2,000 British adults in steady relationships pinpointed the 36-month mark as the time when relationship stress levels peak and points to a new trend of “pink passes”…
Mar 15th
Why Cheaters Win At Relationships →
“Running a mile in under five minutes and thirty seconds” This was my response to an interview question about the most difficult thing I’ve done as an adult; a “safe” answer that 1)
Mar 14th
My Downfall: I Just Can’t Do It →
There are many things in life that I’m good at. Being sexxy is one of them. Being gangsta is another. Impekabul spelling is another. In fact, if we were to sit here and list all of my…
Mar 11th
letmebegreat asked: Ha! @ the suspect comments. I'm a faithful lurker. I always use Firefox and it happens once every 4-5 posts? It started happening once I moved to Spain, so since November or so.
Mar 11th
Anonymous asked: Panama, if you're a 3, I'm a -12. What's a VSS to do?
Mar 11th
letmebegreat asked: Hello!

No relationship question, but a technical one. There are times when I click on a link to a post and I get a blank white screen with a "Thanks for playing" message. (The latest post to do this is Tyler Perry/Love Jones one.) Didn't mind the first few times.....but now...yeah. Do you know how to fix it?
Mar 11th
Anonymous asked: Hey Champ,

Can you touch on the topic of why people are giving charlie sheen a pass for so long. This dude has beaten on multiple women, does tons cocaine and is well know for smashing off hookers, but yet he gets the pass for being the "bad boy" which only white men and Dennis Rodman seem to get. These are the same people that are still watching his show and offering...
Mar 10th
Anonymous asked: I just saw your segment on Weekly w/ Ed Gordon on BET and decided to check out your site. The things you discuss are exactly what most ppl in the black community and outside need to hear. I searched through the site but I couldn't find a blog for a certain question I have. But I've dated all types of women. From the extremely insecure to the overly possessive mixed with a control freak....
Mar 10th
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Anonymous asked: Why is your opinion of Lupe Fiasco not very high?
Mar 10th
On Princeton University, “Hip-Hop 2.0″ & Dr.... →
FYI, Panama Jackson is going to be speaking at this conference on March 26. Get thee to Princeton.
Mar 10th
Have you ever d!ck soaked? →
Is it me or does this just sound like a part of sex?
Mar 10th
Rap Game/Blog Game →
“…this rap sh*t is really just like selling smoke…” – Andre 3000 (of Outkast), “Myintrotoletuknow” Southernplayalisticadillacmuzik “…So we cook it, cut it, measure it, bag it, sell…
Mar 10th
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We'll be on Sirius/XM Radio
Newspaper. Television. Now, radio. Our book’s press tour continues on Sirius/XM radio. Tomorrow morning The Champ and Panama Jackson will be interviewed live on Cocoa Mode with Shawna Renee on The Power XM 169 / Sirius 820. We should be on around 9:30 am, so make sure you tune in and listen. Don’t have XM/Sirius? You might wanna check out the free trial.
Mar 9th
Lose The Receipt, Ladies – Your Drawz Get No... →
Paying for nothing. The American way. It’s pretty common knowledge that women are runnin’ this sex sh*t. While men are pretty much willing to do any and everything to get the…
Mar 9th
Should Have, Could Have: The No-Win Situation →
[***ADMIN NOTE: Being on BET and more specifically TV was as crazy for me as it was to be seen on TV. We’ll touch more on that during an upcoming podcast. But thanks for all the support….
Mar 7th
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Mar 7th
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WatchWatch
Did you miss Panama Jackson on BET’s Weekly with Ed Gordon? Here’s the video in full. 
Mar 7th
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Mar 6th
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Mar 6th
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